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932+ members in New York City
NYC Fetish Dating, Kinky Connections Made Easy
Browse, message, chat and meet up with playmates who are into exactly what you are into. Bondage, D/S, Impact, Foot Worship, RP and more.
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Why members stay
Not just another app that shuts you down
Say what you are into
Your profile leads with your fetish and preferences, not a vague bio.
A real NYC scene
932 members across the five boroughs, plus local munches and events.
What members say 
Real feedback, genuine members
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From the founder 
“I built American BDSM to give discerning adults a private, premium room where they don't have to explain the basics.”
— Thomas Vance, Founder of American BDSM
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