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What is pegging?
Pegging is when a partner uses a strap-on to penetrate another partner, most commonly a woman pegging a man. Some members frame it as a power dynamic, others simply as a physical interest they enjoy; your profile is the place to say which fits you.
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What is pegging?
Pegging is when a partner uses a strap-on to penetrate another partner, most commonly a woman pegging a man. It's one of the more frequently discussed interests in the community and is listed as its own tag on profiles here.
Is pegging only about power exchange?
Not necessarily. Some members frame it as a power dynamic, others simply as a physical interest they enjoy. Your profile is the place to say which fits you.
How do I bring this up with a new match?
State it plainly on your profile, the same as any other interest. Members here expect specifics, so naming it upfront leads to better matches than hinting.
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